Doesnt Reply for a Second Date Text Again

*Date went well, she messaged with intent to see me again, now her replies are wearisome and *****

Alright lads (and ladies), its that time once more. Summertime. When you sorta don't mind the idea of talking to/seeing someone from home before you lot go dorsum to uni. I'm testing the waters right now with a girl I met on tinder. I didn't accept long to become the date sorted. Long story short, engagement was v good, vibes v good, all goody. Talking to her in the build up to meeting was good also. It never took her long to reply even on days she was working.

Now at the cease of our date (bar staff had to boot the states out because nosotros were in that location until endmost lol), I told her to text me when she got in. She did and she thanked me for the drinks and said she knows somewhere we tin go for next time. I bantered her most "side by side time" saying, "so you're already wanting to see me, I've only been gone for an hour. dont blame you tho". Apathetic blah apathetic. Messaged her at least once a day for general chit chat hows your 24-hour interval been, whats piece of work saying etc, except for wednesday. Our appointment was monday.

Since then I feel like somethings happened. Her replies have been dead and she takes hours to reply/responds at weird times of the mean solar day considering shes off work now . When I asked her what twenty-four hour period she wanted to run into up again a few days ago she said "second half of next week or the week after". 2d one-half of adjacent week I assume is from the coming Thursday and onward. Also I'm the one popping up constantly since the appointment. I feel like if I dont message her she wont say anything which is weird. I dont know if its playing hard to go or if shes shy, simply the stuff she was coming out on the date with was a articulate indication that isnt the case.

Anyways, do I sack her off - because Im not chasing girls for the rest of my summertime or try to confirm our adjacent date and accept her response from in that location.

her a*s probably fuc*ing some adjacent bloke while she texting you thus resulting in her slow texts. Now that'due south a fine theory. Existent talk that girls a hoe do non chase up on her. Dust her off and exercise y'all. But in that location is a chance she going through some sh*t. I don't know both seem every bit plasuible. I'll requite this thread a rep to bump it up so the knowledgable LADS can get on this.

(Original post by AspiringAccount)
her a*s probably fuc*ing some next bloke while she texting you thus resulting in her slow texts. Now that's a fine theory. Real talk that girls a hoe do not chase up on her. Dust her off and do yous. Just at that place is a adventure she going through some sh*t. I don't know both seem equally plasuible. I'll give this thread a rep to bump information technology up so the knowledgable LADS tin can get on this.

dont say that bro, im not feeling a marvins room kind of night haha, but yh she could be who knows. Shes been open up about what shes been up to, parties and seeing mates but no existent fashion to know. Appreciate your input though fella!

(Original post past 444plus222)
dont say that bro, im non feeling a marvins room kind of night haha, merely yh she could be who knows. Shes been open nigh what shes been up to, parties and seeing mates but no real way to know. Appreciate your input though fella!

Y'all're references are flawless. Oh and likewise.

(Original post by 444plus222)
dont say that bro, im not feeling a marvins room kind of night haha, merely yh she could be who knows. Shes been open about what shes been up to, parties and seeing mates only no real style to know. Appreciate your input though fella!

Ignore that [email protected] respond, maybe something has come up up, maybe she is more busy. I suggest keep talking, but not besides much. You should endeavor and get a 2d date asap, every bit soon as she can so you can progress further, don't waste time, go straight to the point. You sound similar a level headed fella so just practise your thing, cos this is tinder another better looking guy could come along and ruin things and then don't take things to lightly. Good luck m8.

(Original post by 444plus222)
*Date went well, she messaged with intent to encounter me again, at present her replies are dull and *****

Alright lads (and ladies), its that time again. Summer. When you sorta don't listen the idea of talking to/seeing someone from home before you go back to uni. I'thousand testing the waters right now with a daughter I met on tinder. I didn't take long to get the date sorted. Long story short, appointment was five good, vibes v practiced, all goody. Talking to her in the build up to meeting was good too. Information technology never took her long to reply even on days she was working.

Now at the end of our appointment (bar staff had to kick the states out considering nosotros were there until closing lol), I told her to text me when she got in. She did and she thanked me for the drinks and said she knows somewhere we can go for next time. I bantered her about "adjacent time" saying, "so you're already wanting to see me, I've simply been gone for an 60 minutes. dont blame you tho". Blah blah apathetic. Messaged her at least once a day for general chit chat hows your day been, whats work maxim etc, except for wednesday. Our appointment was monday.

Since then I experience similar somethings happened. Her replies have been dead and she takes hours to answer/responds at weird times of the day considering shes off work now . When I asked her what twenty-four hours she wanted to meet up again a few days ago she said "2nd one-half of next week or the week afterwards". Second one-half of adjacent week I assume is from the coming Thursday and onward. Besides I'm the one popping upwards constantly since the date. I experience like if I dont message her she wont say anything which is weird. I dont know if its playing difficult to go or if shes shy, but the stuff she was coming out on the date with was a clear indication that isnt the example.

Anyways, exercise I sack her off - because Im non chasing girls for the rest of my summer or try to confirm our next date and take her response from at that place.

Rule 1: You can never declare a 1st engagement went "well" until y'all've been on the 2d. The fact that a 2d ane looks unlikely at this signal in time suggests the appointment didn't go also equally you thought it did.

I don't care if the girl was laughing at your every joke and hanging off your every give-and-take, if you lot tin can't get her out over again ...the date didn't go "well" considering she doesn't want to run across you anymore.....

Rule 2: Approach every date equally if it's going to be the last time you meet a woman, don't bank on anything occurring subsequently you part means. Did you lot at to the lowest degree passionately kiss her or get physical with her? ....given how flakey women are you should have gone for it every bit you often will not get the opportunity once more.

closing thoughts: She is displaying textbook beliefs now of a girl who is non interested. She's probably talking to like 5 other Chads every bit I type this, she may be fifty-fifty ****ing one of them. Don't be naive and assume she is telling you about everything [guy wise]. Women can be pretty sneaky when they want to be.....

my advice to you would exist to stop wasting time with this girl and move on to somebody else.

(Original post by 444plus222)
*Date went well, she messaged with intent to see me again, now her replies are slow and *****

Alright lads (and ladies), its that time again. Summer. When you sorta don't mind the idea of talking to/seeing someone from home before you become back to uni. I'm testing the waters right at present with a girl I met on tinder. I didn't have long to get the date sorted. Long story curt, date was v good, vibes five proficient, all goody. Talking to her in the build upwardly to meeting was expert as well. Information technology never took her long to respond even on days she was working.

Now at the end of our date (bar staff had to kicking usa out because we were there until endmost lol), I told her to text me when she got in. She did and she thanked me for the drinks and said she knows somewhere nosotros tin can go for side by side time. I bantered her about "next time" saying, "so you lot're already wanting to see me, I've only been gone for an hour. dont blame you tho". Blah apathetic apathetic. Messaged her at least once a day for general chit chat hows your twenty-four hour period been, whats work saying etc, except for wednesday. Our date was monday.

Since then I experience like somethings happened. Her replies have been dead and she takes hours to reply/responds at weird times of the day considering shes off work at present . When I asked her what mean solar day she wanted to come across upward over again a few days ago she said "second one-half of adjacent calendar week or the calendar week later on". Second half of next week I presume is from the coming Th and onward. Besides I'm the one popping up constantly since the engagement. I feel like if I dont message her she wont say anything which is weird. I dont know if its playing difficult to get or if shes shy, only the stuff she was coming out on the engagement with was a clear indication that isnt the case.

Anyways, exercise I sack her off - because Im not chasing girls for the rest of my summer or endeavor to ostend our adjacent date and have her response from in that location.

You lot ****ed upward past texting her too much earlier and afterwards the date. It kills allure quicker than anything.

After a proficient appointment, go cold and texting should be kept down to an absolute minimum (avoid it at all costs if yous can). Stop being needy and acting like this girl is your life... Need to arctic and go do other things bro.

Rookie errors.

Honestly, in that location's no bespeak pursuing someone if y'all are doing all of the work. It isn't a skillful sign if she doesn't initiate anything. I agree that neediness is a big turn off, but maybe she didn't like you as much as you retrieve. She could also have other things going on in her life. Either way, I would stop texting her.

I've learned that you lot should ever expect at the manner people act in a situation to discover their true feelings. Don't put too much stock in what they say.

(Original post past 444plus222)
I bantered her about "adjacent fourth dimension" saying, "so you're already wanting to see me, I've only been gone for an hour. dont blame yous tho". Blah blah blah.

Girl bespeak of view here.
This is what killed it. Y'all basically called her thirsty, and so she thought she'd prove you wrong by slowing down with letters and delaying next date to prove you incorrect!

(Original post by Newbie_noob)
Ignore that [electronic mail protected] answer, maybe something has come up, maybe she is more busy. I suggest proceed talking, only non as well much. You should endeavour and get a 2nd date asap, as soon as she can so you can progress further, don't waste time, become direct to the point. You sound like a level headed fella so just do your affair, cos this is tinder another better looking guy could come along and ruin things and so don't take things to lightly. Expert luck m8.

very true. I probably should continue talking to other girls in the meantime. cheers pal!

(Original mail service past ANM775)
Rule 1: Y'all can never declare a 1st date went "well" until y'all've been on the second. The fact that a second i looks unlikely at this point in fourth dimension suggests the date didn't become as well equally you thought information technology did.

I don't care if the daughter was laughing at your every joke and hanging off your every discussion, if y'all can't get her out again ...the date didn't go "well" because she doesn't want to see you lot anymore.....

Rule 2: Approach every engagement equally if it's going to exist the last time you see a adult female, don't bank on anything occurring subsequently you lot part ways. Did you at least passionately kiss her or go physical with her? ....given how flakey women are you should have gone for it as you frequently will non get the opportunity once more.

endmost thoughts: She is displaying textbook behavior now of a girl who is not interested. She'due south probably talking to like 5 other Chads as I type this, she may be even ****ing one of them. Don't be naive and assume she is telling you about everything [guy wise]. Women tin can be pretty sneaky when they desire to be.....

my communication to you lot would exist to stop wasting time with this girl and move on to somebody else.

Interesting have. All things considered you lot could be right. Think I'll know definitively by next week where I stand. Give thanks you!

(Original post past trapking)
You lot ****ed up by texting her too much before and later the engagement. It kills allure quicker than anything.

Later a practiced date, become cold and texting should be kept down to an absolute minimum (avoid information technology at all costs if you can). Stop existence needy and acting like this girl is your life... Need to arctic and go do other things bro.

Rookie errors.

On the contrary non texting/making effort makes me look uninterested and non serious. With the other girls I've seen (two this year, for four and 3 months),
say they've all liked and appreciated me taking an involvement into them. I didn't popular upward on Wednesday just to give some space but fifty-fifty still I'm non a beg and I dont chat **** when I text her. So deffo not needy. I piece of work role fourth dimension, bang gym and maintain an active social life and then im quite busy myself merely I make the effort. Wouldnt say I'm a rookie, but appreciate your input.

(Original mail by YaliaV)
Honestly, there's no bespeak pursuing someone if you are doing all of the piece of work. It isn't a good sign if she doesn't initiate annihilation. I agree that neediness is a large plough off, but maybe she didn't like you as much as you recall. She could likewise accept other things going on in her life. Either mode, I would finish texting her.

I've learned that y'all should e'er expect at the mode people human activity in a state of affairs to detect their truthful feelings. Don't put as well much stock in what they say.

Im usual pretty forrard if I similar someone only never want to come up across needy. Perchance I over exaggerated the fashion nosotros used to speak pre-date and I acc remember she's genuinely busy atm from her ig stories. Time volition tell, thank you tho!

(Original post by Anonymous)
Daughter betoken of view here.
This is what killed it. You lot basically called her thirsty, so she thought she'd prove y'all incorrect by slowing down with messages and delaying side by side appointment to prove you wrong!

I'd be very surprised if this was a factor but I dont know, thats why im here lol. Give thanks you. I call up I'll start matching her reply times now, while still trying for the second date. This should exist indicative of her truthful intentions.

(Original post by 444plus222)
Im usual pretty forward if I like someone just never want to come across needy. Maybe I over exaggerated the fashion we used to speak pre-date and I acc think she's genuinely decorated atm from her ig stories. Time will tell, cheers tho!

I know information technology can exist hard to residue; you want to appear interested, but not needy. Information technology can be hard to stop yourself from texting, though my advice would probably be to get common cold turkey. Waiting tin can seem like agony, so only distract yourself with other things and try to forget about it. If she likes you, and then she'll get dorsum.

If you admittedly have to text her, then at least give it a few days. Just try to relax either way.

(Original mail by 444plus222)
On the contrary not texting/making effort makes me look uninterested and not serious. With the other girls I've seen (2 this twelvemonth, for 4 and 3 months),
say they've all liked and appreciated me taking an interest into them. I didn't pop upwards on Wednesday simply to give some space just even notwithstanding I'k not a beg and I dont chat **** when I text her. So deffo not needy. I work part time, bang gym and maintain an agile social life so im quite busy myself but I make the endeavour. Wouldnt say I'yard a rookie, but capeesh your input.

Women don't work that fashion bro. The more you text everyday and chat the more it simply kills attraction. Yous accept to understand this signal.

Women desire not sexual attention they feed of that and you giving her that everytime means she has no reason to chase you or bang you and will **** some other guy that's blastoff every bit **** and doesn't even give her the time of day.

It doesn't mean don't text her at all it simply means yous have to bear witness you're NOT dependent on her company at all and that you're non bothered if she goes. It makes women chase you and in turn you tin use this to your advantage to bang.

If she asks you where you have been and why you lot haven't been texting her but say yous were decorated fifty-fifty if you weren't. By you texting her almost everyday y'all're automatically showing her you lot accept nothing better to do than to text her all the time she then gets bored of y'all and seeks guys who give her more excitement.

(Original post past trapking)
Women don't work that mode bro. The more you lot text everyday and chat the more it just kills allure. You have to sympathize this bespeak.

Women desire not sexual attention they feed of that and you giving her that everytime means she has no reason to chase yous or bang you and will **** another guy that'southward alpha equally **** and doesn't even requite her the time of day.

It doesn't mean don't text her at all information technology but means yous have to evidence you're NOT dependent on her company at all and that you're non bothered if she goes. It makes women chase you and in plough you tin can employ this to your advantage to bang.

If she asks you lot where you accept been and why you haven't been texting her just say you were busy even if you weren't. By you texting her nearly everyday you lot're automatically showing her you accept nothing better to practise than to text her all the time she and then gets bored of you and seeks guys who requite her more excitement.

I'll deffo get cold turkey until thursday. I think thats a great shout.Gives her fourth dimension to think whys he non texting or "nifty, hes not texting". I hear what you lot're saying tho. Thanks bro

Update on my part, after seeing the other replies I'd like to hold with them.

BTW op, how does tinder work for y'all? I tried earlier but didn't get a unmarried lucifer, I had decent pictures merely yet no luck.

(Original post by Newbie_noob)
Update on my part, afterwards seeing the other replies I'd similar to concord with them.

BTW op, how does tinder work for y'all? I tried earlier just didn't get a unmarried match, I had decent pictures but still no luck.

I agree as well!

Likewise **UPDATE** she replied finally to our final convo - zero substantial, non gonna answer until tomo lol.

Ngl I'm lowkey a seasoned tinder veteran. This ranges from girls I've actually gone out with and girls I've only slept with. Im lucky to be practiced looking - I dorsum myself haha. Literally then many factors. I've got mates who are amend looking than me merely dont match the amount of girls I take or to my caliber. Just depends. Get objective feedback from mates if its bothering yous. Have a range of pics. For example get like three selfies conspicuously showing your face then go a few group pictures (to show you accept friends and aren't totally self obsessed) and try to show a range of fits. Expert fashion goes a long fashion. You dont accept to be dripping in designer, only look good. Make certain your bio isnt too serious too lol. I recommend getting tinder plus likewise. dirt cheap and y'all get a costless monthly boost. But you dont permit information technology knock your confidence enough of girls exterior of tinder obviously. Are you lot in uni?

(Original post past 444plus222)
I agree too!

Also **UPDATE** she replied finally to our last convo - nothing substantial, not gonna reply until tomo lol.

Ngl I'k lowkey a seasoned tinder veteran. This ranges from girls I've actually gone out with and girls I've just slept with. Im lucky to exist good looking - I dorsum myself haha. Literally then many factors. I've got mates who are better looking than me but dont match the corporeality of girls I have or to my caliber. But depends. Get objective feedback from mates if its bothering you lot. Accept a range of pics. For case get similar 3 selfies conspicuously showing your face then get a few group pictures (to show you have friends and aren't totally cocky obsessed) and try to testify a range of fits. Good fashion goes a long way. Y'all dont have to be dripping in designer, just expect skillful. Brand sure your bio isnt too serious too lol. I recommend getting tinder plus as well. dirt cheap and y'all become a gratuitous monthly heave. But you lot dont let it knock your confidence plenty of girls exterior of tinder obviously. Are you in uni?

maybe you look amend in pics than they practice.

Not being funny ...but some people just ain't that photogenic. I can think of a dude I know who is near an 8 and in pics he is similar seven max, and typically a vi

whilst his mate is like a half dozen/seven in the flesh but on camera jumps to a seven.five and really looks better than the other guy

a couple of girls from work as well, when i've seen their facebooks i've been shocked. they're pics don't do them justice at all, they wait significantly better IRL.

I await at their pics and call up "meh.." simply in real life I notice them quite attractive.

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